What makes Before Yes different from other relationship apps?

Before Yes focuses specifically on marriage preparation with research-backed questions covering essential life decisions. Unlike dating apps or generic relationship quizzes, we help couples and individuals address the topics that matter most before making a lifelong commitment. Our dual-mode approach lets you prepare solo or together, ensuring both individual readiness and couple compatibility.

Do I need to create an account?

No! Before Yes is completely account-free. We believe in privacy-first design, so there's no sign-up. Just download and start exploring the questions that matter to you. Your answers stay private on your device.

How does Couples Mode work?

In Couples Mode, one partner creates a private room with a unique code. The other partner joins using that code. You both answer questions independently, then the app compares your responses in real-time, showing compatibility scores and highlighting areas for discussion. It's designed to spark meaningful conversations, not create conflict.

What topics do the questions cover?

Our 100+ questions cover essential life decisions including family planning, finances, career goals, living arrangements, religious beliefs, communication styles, emotional needs, family relationships, long-term goals, and shared values. These topics are based on research showing which conversations lead to stronger marriages.

Is Before Yes only for engaged couples?

Not at all! Before Yes is valuable for anyone in a serious relationship considering marriage, those already engaged, couples in premarital counseling, or even individuals who want to assess their own readiness before committing to a partnership. Solo Mode is perfect for personal reflection.

How much does it cost?

Before Yes is free to download with full access to core features. We offer optional in-app purchases for additional question sets and premium features. You can try everything risk-free to see if it's right for you and your partner.

Is Before Yes available in other languages?

Yes! Before Yes is currently available in English and French, making it accessible to couples across different linguistic backgrounds. We're working on adding more languages based on user feedback.

What should be on a premarital checklist?

A premarital checklist should cover: communication and conflict resolution, financial planning and debt disclosure, family planning and parenting views, core values and lifestyle expectations, intimacy and relationship foundations, practical matters like living arrangements, and legal considerations. Our checklist includes 50+ items across 7 essential categories.

How long before the wedding should you start the marriage preparation checklist?

Ideally, start your premarital checklist 6-12 months before the wedding. This gives you time to have meaningful conversations without rushing, address any issues that arise, and potentially seek premarital counseling if needed. However, it's never too early to start these conversations.

Do both partners need to complete the checklist?

Yes, both partners should complete the checklist together. The purpose is to spark conversations and ensure alignment on important topics. Many items require discussing perspectives from both sides. You can review each item individually first, then discuss together.

Is the marriage preparation checklist free?

Yes, our marriage preparation checklist is completely free. Your progress is saved locally in your browser so you can return and continue where you left off. No signup or account is required.

Free Premarital Checklist

Marriage Preparation Checklist

The complete premarital checklist with 50 essential conversations to have before saying "I do."

Use this free checklist before marriage to ensure you've covered finances, family planning, values, and more. Track your progress and prepare for a stronger marriage.

50 Items

7 Categories

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Why Use a Marriage Preparation Checklist?

Research shows that couples who discuss essential topics before marriage report higher satisfaction and lower divorce rates.

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Prevent Surprises

Discover important differences before they become problems in your marriage.

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Build Foundation

Create a stronger relationship by addressing key topics together.

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Stay Aligned

Ensure you're both on the same page about life's biggest decisions.

Helpful Resources

Dive deeper into specific topics with our free guides

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How to Prepare for Marriage

The complete step-by-step guide for couples.

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50 Questions to Ask Before Marriage

Essential conversations every couple should have.

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Financial Conversations Guide

Money talks every couple needs to have.

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Marriage Readiness Quiz

Free 20-question assessment in 2 minutes.

Go Beyond the Checklist

Get 100+ research-backed questions with real-time compatibility scoring in the Before Yes app. Compare answers with your partner and discover where you align.

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Marriage Preparation Checklist

Communication & Conflict

Financial Planning

Family & Children

Values & Beliefs

Lifestyle & Daily Life

Intimacy & Relationship

Practical Preparation