Before Yes
Boston, MA

Marriage Preparation in Boston

Join 675,000 residents preparing for married life. Before Yes helps Boston couples have essential conversations before saying "I do."

Massachusetts was the first state to legalize same-sex marriage in 2004.

Massachusetts Marriage License Requirements

$50
License Fee
3 days
Waiting Period
60 days
License Validity
No
Blood Test Required

Requirements may vary. Contact your local Massachusetts county clerk for current information.

Why Boston Couples Choose Before Yes

Northeastern couples often balance traditional family expectations with progressive values.

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Flexible & Private

Work through questions together at home, at your favorite Boston coffee shop, or anywhere you're comfortable. Four distinct seasons mean planning for both cozy indoor conversations and outdoor activities.

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Save on Preparation

With the average Boston wedding costing $48,000, Before Yes offers comprehensive marriage preparation at a fraction of traditional counseling costs.

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Address Local Challenges

Boston is a major education hub, so many couples meet in school and must navigate careers in different cities. Before Yes helps you navigate these conversations with 100+ research-backed questions.

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Compare & Connect

Multi-generational families often live nearby, making extended family discussions especially relevant. Use Couples Mode to answer questions independently, then compare responses to spark meaningful conversations.

Essential Topics for Boston Couples

Before Yes covers the conversations that build a strong marriage foundation.

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Extended Family In-laws and boundaries
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Financial Goals Saving, spending, and debt
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Family Planning Children and parenting
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Faith & Beliefs Spiritual alignment
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Health & Wellness Physical and mental health
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Intimacy Emotional and physical needs
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Social Life Friends and activities
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Living Situation Where and how to live
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Life Goals Your shared vision

Getting Married in Boston?

Popular Venue Types

  • historic venues
  • waterfront estates
  • university settings

Best Seasons

The most popular wedding seasons in Boston are fall and spring.

Romantic Getaway

Plan a pre-wedding getaway to Cape Cod to reconnect and discuss your future together.

Boston Marriage Preparation FAQ

What is the marriage license fee in Boston?
The marriage license fee in Boston, Massachusetts is $50. There is a 3 days waiting period after obtaining your license. Your license is valid for 60 days.
How long should we prepare for marriage?
Most relationship experts recommend 3-6 months of intentional marriage preparation. This gives you time to work through important topics like finances, family planning, and communication styles before your Boston wedding.
Is premarital counseling required in Massachusetts?
Premarital counseling is not legally required in Massachusetts, but it's highly recommended. Many couples find that preparation significantly improves their relationship satisfaction.
What topics should Boston couples discuss before marriage?
Boston couples should discuss finances (especially given $48,000 average wedding costs), family expectations, career goals, and lifestyle preferences. Boston is a major education hub, so many couples meet in school and must navigate careers in different cities.

Ready to Start Your Marriage Journey in Boston?

Join couples across Massachusetts preparing for marriage with Before Yes. Download free and start having the conversations that matter.

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