Before Yes
Seattle, WA

Marriage Preparation in Seattle

Join 750,000 residents preparing for married life. Before Yes helps Seattle couples have essential conversations before saying "I do."

Seattle couples often incorporate the outdoors into their relationships, making lifestyle alignment especially important.

Washington Marriage License Requirements

$70
License Fee
3 days
Waiting Period
60 days
License Validity
No
Blood Test Required

Requirements may vary. Contact your local Washington county clerk for current information.

Why Seattle Couples Choose Before Yes

Pacific Northwest couples often value sustainability, outdoor activities, and authenticity.

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Flexible & Private

Work through questions together at home, at your favorite Seattle coffee shop, or anywhere you're comfortable. Rainy seasons provide natural opportunities for cozy, meaningful conversations.

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Save on Preparation

With the average Seattle wedding costing $38,000, Before Yes offers comprehensive marriage preparation at a fraction of traditional counseling costs.

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Address Local Challenges

The tech industry brings many transplants without local family support, making discussions about building community essential. Before Yes helps you navigate these conversations with 100+ research-backed questions.

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Compare & Connect

Many couples relocate here, making discussions about building community essential. Use Couples Mode to answer questions independently, then compare responses to spark meaningful conversations.

Essential Topics for Seattle Couples

Before Yes covers the conversations that build a strong marriage foundation.

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Living Situation Where and how to live
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Life Goals Your shared vision
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Communication Styles How you handle disagreements
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Core Values What matters most to you
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Career Ambitions Work-life balance
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Extended Family In-laws and boundaries
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Financial Goals Saving, spending, and debt
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Family Planning Children and parenting
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Faith & Beliefs Spiritual alignment

Getting Married in Seattle?

Popular Venue Types

  • waterfront venues
  • mountain lodges
  • urban rooftops

Best Seasons

The most popular wedding seasons in Seattle are summer and early fall.

Romantic Getaway

Plan a pre-wedding getaway to the San Juan Islands to reconnect and discuss your future together.

Seattle Marriage Preparation FAQ

What is the marriage license fee in Seattle?
The marriage license fee in Seattle, Washington is $70. There is a 3 days waiting period after obtaining your license. Your license is valid for 60 days.
How long should we prepare for marriage?
Most relationship experts recommend 3-6 months of intentional marriage preparation. This gives you time to work through important topics like finances, family planning, and communication styles before your Seattle wedding.
Is premarital counseling required in Washington?
Premarital counseling is not legally required in Washington, but it's highly recommended. Many couples find that preparation significantly improves their relationship satisfaction.
What topics should Seattle couples discuss before marriage?
Seattle couples should discuss finances (especially given $38,000 average wedding costs), family expectations, career goals, and lifestyle preferences. The tech industry brings many transplants without local family support, making discussions about building community essential.

Ready to Start Your Marriage Journey in Seattle?

Join couples across Washington preparing for marriage with Before Yes. Download free and start having the conversations that matter.

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